Dating tips for a new relationship

  1. Don’t take dating too seriously

This generally means that you should enjoy your dates a lot more. Apart from that, you need to see dating as something that can provide you an opportunity to meet new people and socialize. Furthermore, it can also provide you a prospective to finding someone with whom you can build a relationship.

  1. Don’t date out of desperation and anxiety

Never date in desperation of having a relationship. This is because it can lead to having a person whom you may not be the right choice. because desperation and anxiety can cloud your judgment, you may end up with someone who makes you  insecure.

  1. Don’t date to make someone jealous

When you are dating someone just to make a person jealous about it, you are not doing anyone a favor. Because; you could end up revealing that you actually like him or her. Besides, chances are, you could give the impression that you really are enjoying the company when you are not.

  1. Practice caution on multiple dating

When you are dating a number of men or women, you may end up stressing yourself out. Because multiple dating is never easy, and it needs you to become extremely organized. Although you may be enjoying the variety of individuals multiple dating can offer to you, it is still less demanding when you are not always worrying about sending the wrong text or e-mails to the wrong person.

  1. Be yourself

Being yourself in dating can go a long way, particularly if you are on a pursuit to finding a person to have a healthy relationship with. Because when you won’t be concealing anything from your date, you can be assured that he or she would be accepting you just the way you are, if your relationship grows.

  1. Don’t date to play games

Dating can involve feelings of people. Therefore, if you are considering date, as something that you take pleasure in just like your games, you must reconsider it. Because playing games with people’s feelings is not a good idea. Hence, it is best to see it as something serious, because, just like you, other people also do not intend to get hurt.

  1. Lending money to your date

If you intend to lend money to your date, make sure that you are currently in a relationship. Besides, you must also trust him or her. Because if you lend someone money, whom you are not in a deep relationship with, there is a significant possibility that he or she won’t  pay you with the money you lent.

  1. Enjoy dating not just for sex

When you are enjoying your sexual interactions, it can influence your decision making, which can cause adverse results. Therefore, it is always recommended not to sleep with someone on the first few dates. That way, you can concentrate more on getting to know the individual, discovering common values.

  1. Get out of the house

Although online dating is quite popular nowadays, it is always better to go out in order to find dates. Due to the fact that you get to meet your date personally, dating offline is more fun. Besides, when you go outside, it raises your dating potentials even more, which can help you end up with someone you truly take pleasure in being with.

  1. Take a break

Especially if it is making you more miserable, take a break from dating. A break from dating can be taken for a duration of 3 to 6 months. In taking a break, it can offer you time to rediscover yourself. This basically means that it can provide you more time in getting involved with a hobby, or catching up with your friends.

  1. Get to know yourself better

Know yourself better to enjoy dating more. This means you need to determine what you like, what your interests are, what your goals are, and such. By taking note of these things, you will be guided better in picking your dates. However, getting out of your comfort zone from time to time to try new things is always a good idea.

  1. Avoid negative people

When you are around negative people, it influences your attitude and it can also affect your judgment in a adverse way. Because when you are near them, you may become one of them.  Therefore, to enjoy your dates, you need to surround yourself with positive people, so that prior to meeting him or her, you have a positive frame of mind.

  1. Engaging into phone or online sex

Engaging in online or phone sex is not a good idea. Because you cannot expect anything from it, but a waste of your time. This is due to the fact that people who do these sorts of things usually are involve with it just to while away their extra time. Therefore, if you participate in it, you cannot expect them to value you.

  1. Acknowledge the existence of dubious behavior

If you have been with lots of failed relationships, you must realize that a lot of these breakups, could have been avoided, if you acknowledge the existence of dubious behavior in the beginning of the relationship, or during your dating times. Therefore, if you see these things on your date, you need to confront him or her regarding it, or simply look for another one.

  1. Have a life

If you found a date you truly like, it is still extremely essential that you are aware of your priorities. Therefore, you must not end up being dependent on him or her, so that he or she see you as someone who is independent and confident. If you won’t focus on having your own life, you may end up disregarding yourself, your friends, family, or perhaps your work.

  1. Criticizing the date

Criticizing your date by talking about him or her with your friends won’t gain lots of things. Always remember that you do not want to be criticized for your actions. Thus, if you simply don’t like your date, you need to be mature enough not to set up another date with the individual.

  1. Control your drinks

Consuming a bottle or two of your favorite beer while you are dating is not a sin. Nevertheless, you need to limit the number of bottles you consume, since you may end up losing control of yourself when you have had too much to drink. Therefore, if you have a tendency to over drink, you must avoid it by all means, because you may lose your chances of beginning a relationship with your date.

  1. Out of your league

There is always a tendency to bring down yourself, when you think that your date is just out of your league. This way of thinking about your worth must not be encouraged, because if you tend to believe that you are not good enough for a particular individual, you may simply end up with a person who thinks the same way as you do. Therefore, be positive, so that you can find the person that you truly are looking for.

  1. Determine what you actually desire out of dating

In determining what you actually desire in dating, you need to stop wasting yours and someone else’s time. Therefore, you need to figure out whether you are dating to start a new relationship, to just have a good time, or to pass your time. By doing that, you can base your search for your date on it, to find the ideal person.

  1. Fix yourself up for the date

When you make an effort on your appearance on your date, you can boost the possibilities of having a good time in it. Because it can make you feel great about {yourself, and boost your confidence. Apart from that, you can also ensure to have the right mindset, which can prepare you to have a positive conversation with him or her.

  1. Smile on your date

When you smile, everyone else around you seems like smiling as well, including your date. Thus, it  encourages a much more positive atmosphere between you and your prospective companion. Smiling can lead to a much more pleasurable conversation, which can make you and your date have more fun while you are both enjoying your meal.

  1. Your posture

Being extra conscious on your posture can provide you with lots of advantages in terms of your  health and wellness, along with your date. It also shows that you are a strong and an independent individual. Besides, it make you feel more confident, apart from making you feel that you are taller.

  1. Shaving

Shaving is something that both men and women need to do, prior to going on a date. For men, a well shaved face impresses most women, since women see it as an indicator of a man’s cleanliness and sanitation. For women, it is best that they shave their underarms, since a man can get easily turned off if he sees that his date has hair in that part of her body.

  1. Being conscious of your voice

It is best that you gain better control of your voice, to sound more mature. Keeping a calm and low tone voice is the most effective way to do it. Because if you speak in a high tone or with cracking sounds, your date tend to see you as someone who is immature. Hence, it is ideal if you train yourself for this.

  1. Your odor

Smelling good is extremely essential on a date. Therefore, using a good perfume or perhaps a cologne impresses your date. Apart from that, make sure that you wear a dependable deodorant, Because if you sweat and its odor blends with your perfume, you may kiss goodbye to your possibilities of having a second date.

  1. Forbidden subjects

Choosing the right kinds of topics for your conversation is one of the most crucial things that you need to take note of, while you are on a date. To make it less complicated though, you must avoid speaking about subjects that are forbidden, because it would not encourage a relaxing environment. Focus on  lighter topics, so that you and your date enjoy the conversation.

  1. Avoid a tiff

Anything that can cause to have a tiff needs to be avoided in any case, when you are on a date. Because having a tiff can make a dream date into a nightmare. Therefore, it is best that you always focus on the positive side of things. Apart from that, you should avoid sarcasm. Moreover, never be late on your first date. Anything that can trigger a bad mood needs to be avoided in any situation, when you are on a date.

  1. Use the name of your date

Using the name of your date all throughout the evening in your conversation helps you a lot. By doing that, you would actually be helping yourself in remembering his or her name, since you are frequently saying it. Besides, it also creates a more intimate atmosphere between you and your date.

  1. Use different perfumes or colognes

If you have been going out with a woman or a man on numerous occasions, you should change your perfume or cologne, each time you go out with your date. Since variety is the spice of life. Besides, you can actually impress your date by asking what sort of cologne or perfume he or she likes best, and wear it on the next date.

  1. Keep fit

Staying as fit as you can be makes you more attractive, besides the fact that it boosts your self esteem. Because of that, you portray a more positive self when you meet your date for the first time. Therefore, it is time that you get some exercise on a regular basis, and integrate it with a healthy and balanced diet.

  1. You are serious about your future

When you show your date that you are serious about your future, it gives them confidence that you are also serious about them. Although your date may not be seeking a long term relationship, it is still best if you treat him or her as someone who could be your prospective companion}, especially if you truly like them.

  1. Be someone your date can introduce to his or her parents

If you are serious about your date, you should give him or her an perception that you are worthy to be introduced to your date’s parents. This suggests that you need to be presentable, by dressing and behaving appropriately. This does not mean that you need to be too serious though. Telling a joke or two would definitely make you a lot more comfortable with each other.

  1. Never interrupt

Interrupting someone while he or she is talking is not a good idea, particularly on a date. Unless if you wish to annoy your date, you must never interrupt while he or she is talking, because it can be deemed as a sign of disrespect. Always allow your date to finish what he or she is saying, so that you  understand what they are trying to say.

  1. Don’t be a whiner

When you are on a date, one of the most awful things you can do is to be a whiner. A whiner often whines about every little thing, and constantly tell his or herself that he or she is a loser. Being a whiner on a date is not just annoying, however it can make the other person wish that he or she did not go out with you at all.

  1. Don’t be a crybaby

A crybaby is someone who constantly talks about his or her past mistakes, problems, or past relationship failures. Usually, crybabies are looking for shoulders to lean on. However, being a shoulder to lean on is not the main objective of going on a date. Therefore, you can’t expect your date to offer you his or her shoulder once you vent out your feelings regarding your experiences in the past.

  1. Let your date talk

If you desire your date to have a good time, let them talk. People always appreciate it when someone asks for their opinion regarding something they enjoy talking about. The reasons they state, certain things are good or bad| poor. To attain this, all you actually need to ask open-ended questions.

  1. Be a friend to your date

Being a friend to your date is not a bad idea, especially if you have already dated a couple of times. When you be an understanding friend to your date, he or she will be grateful about it. To be a friend to your date, you merely need to listen to them whenever they need to vent out their feelings regarding certain things.

  1. Trust

Lots of people do not open up too much or spend excessive emotions on their dates or prospective companions. Because, they are afraid of getting hurt, or they were hurt in the past. Thus, it is ideal that you be a person your date can rely on. By doing that, you would be closer to your date, once he or she gains more trust in you.

  1. Touching your date

For a man, if his date touches him, he can interpret it as something favorable. However, for women, touching them on the first date may not be a good idea, because some may get offended by it. Only touch a woman when she is  comfortable with you, or if she touches you when you tell jokes.

  1. Mysterious

Some people enjoy dating a mysterious person because they love to gradually discover aspects of him or her, as they go on more dates; and, this is especially true to a lot of women. Being mysterious means that you give your date an idea about what you are, but you are not going into details about it. It leaves them a feeling of dangling, in which they would wish to know you more.

  1. Learn to read palms

Being a palm reader can excite your date, besides the fact that it can give you an opportunity to hold her hands. Reading your date’s palms creates a much more relaxed atmosphere, between you and her. It can also pave the way to more interesting conversations. Apart from that, it can also make her more comfortable of the fact that you are touching her.

  1. Be polite yet don’t overdo it

Although opening doors to a woman is indeed a polite gesture to do, don’t overdo it. Because women today do not want to feel like they are helpless individuals. Hence, it is ideal if you do it with caution from now on, so that you won’t be offending your date, by being too polite.

  1. Business cards

If you want your dates to have something that he or she can remember you with, you need to bring your business cards when you go out with them. Although the most effective thing to do to be remembered well is to impress your date, having business cards can also provide a unique impression.

  1. Doing little things

If you have been dating someone for quite some time already and you intend to make him or her feel special, you need to do little things for your date. Giving her a flower every now and then, or treating them for a snack would go a long way, as far as cultivating your relationship is concerned.

  1. Never stalk

When you go out with a person you truly like and you intend to see him or her more, it is not a good idea to stalk them. Because, it can be rather awkward for an individual to see his or her date, everywhere that they go. If you intend to see your date more, you need to communicate with them, and see if he or she is still interested.

playful date ideas for the first date
playful date ideas for the first date
  1. Dancing

Learning to dance offers lot of advantages, besides gaining a more flexible body. It can actually help in impressing your date. A man can easily be impressed if he sees that his prospective companion is a good dancer, since it reveals to him how sexy and attractive she can be. Apart from that, dancing with each other can create a more comfortable environment between the two.

  1. Things you need understand on the first date

There are lots of things that you need to know about your date for the first time you go out with them. Among which would be his or her dislikes, because it can save you headaches. Other than that, it is extremely important to know if he or she is currently involved with someone or is married, so that you recognize if he or she deserves your time.

  1. Starting or keeping a conversation going

There are lots of things that you can say in order to start or keep a conversation going. Among the things that you can do is to compliment her. Apart from that, you can ask your date about how their day was. Furthermore, asking questions, especially those that may need your date a description about his or her answer is also a good idea.

  1. Making compliments

For a man, making compliments on the woman he is dating is among the best means to make her feel appreciated. Because women in most cases, share a fear regarding not being attractive on certain occasions. Therefore, if you intend to make your date comfortable with you, you need to compliment about her hair, her perfume smells so good, and such.

  1. Be successful

If you have experienced a good number of dates already, you would understand that most of the times, topics in a conversation consist of where have you been, what have you achieved, and many more. Hence, if you have attained success in life, there is a good chance that your date would be impressed by your life story.

  1. No sex talks

No sex talks must be a rule that you need to adhere to, especially in initial dates. Because first and second dates are usually the time when you get to know the other person, who can be your  prospective partner. Talking about sex could give the wrong impression about your intentions, that can make the other person feel awkward.

  1. Be nice

Being nice can mean a lot of things, particularly for a man. Nice can mean desirable, normal, presentable, trustworthy, helpful, or pleasant; and, lots of women are actually looking for the nice guys. Thus, taking note of these points can help you make a good impression on your dates.

  1. What to do with your apartment

Whether you are a boy or a girl, you need to come up with an apartment or condo that makes you look more mature, especially if you are approaching a stage, where you are planning to invite your date home. The apartment or condo needs to be clean and clean, and it must be free from posters. Rather, decorate your apartment or condo in a more mature way, and get it organized well, so that you can impress your date.

  1. Calling him or her

If he or she offers you their contact number after a date, you must not call them a day after. It is too soon Call just a day after your date, which may scare your date away. It gives a perception that you are too eager in listening to his or her voice. Hence, it is best if you call him or her only after 2 to 4 days after you meet them for the first time.

  1. Make memories

If you are dating the woman of your dreams, make sure to do something that would make memories. You may be delighted that you were able to strike a stimulating conversation with her at the bar, yet it may not be enough for your date to be memorable. To attain that, you need to do something different, such as bringing her to the zoo, to a circus, or perhaps just a nice stroll in the park.

  1. Dating is discovering

Dating is in fact a phase in a relationship where you start to discover certain aspects of an individual. Therefore, it is best that you have a good conversation with your date, so that you are able to understand him or her better. Understanding your date better offers you an opportunity to see if you really are compatible or not.

  1. Sharing common values

Dating can provide you an opportunity to understand whether you and your date share common values. Although sexual chemistry and sharing common interests are two vital points to begin on a relationship, sharing common values is a lot more crucial, since it can cultivate a more enduring relationship. Hence, it is best that you make the most of dating to discover even more about it.

  1. Dating is not something like a vocation

Dating is not a vocation. Therefore, one of your primary objectives in dating should be to enjoy in meeting new people. It is not something that you need to do in order to have a life. Although there are lots of things that you need to remember when it pertains to dating, it shouldn’t be treated as something that you actually need to do well on. Therefore, have some fun, so that you can be yourself in dating.

  1. Never date if you are not over your ex

If you are not over your ex yet, you should not go on dates. Because your emotions can end up ruining all your dates. You may engage into self-pity while you are talking with your dates, besides talking all about your ex and his or her shortcomings. Thus, see to it that you are completely over your ex before dating, to ensure that your prospective companions won’t avoid you.

  1. Online dating is just one of your alternatives in meeting people

Lots of people today engage into online dating, especially those that are quite busy with their own professions. Nevertheless, online dating needs to be deemed a means to increasing your opportunities of meeting even more people you may date. Thus, it is just one of the many options that you have when it pertains to that. You should still go out, and meet new people personally, to ensure that you have a much more fascinating life.

  1. First date does not mean you are in a relationship

This is one of the most essential points that you need to keep in mind when you go on your first date. You are not in a relationship yet, given that you don’t know each other that well. Thus, put some limits when it comes to sharing stories. Apart from that, you need to also avoid acting like you are your date’s girlfriend or boyfriend, because that may just scare them off.

  1. Know your limits

You limits can sometimes tell you that who you really are. Therefore, it is best that you be more aware of it. Besides, when you know what your limits are, you can always do something in order to exceed it.

  1. You are worthy

If you are awed by the existence of your date, you need to take control of yourself, by recognizing that you are indeed worthy and deserving to be his or her date. By doing this, you will be much more confident of yourself. Apart from that, if you end up in a relationship with that particular person, it  creates a equilibrium between you, which is also very vital.

  1. Don’t be blind while enjoying dating

You don’t need to be blind in order to enjoy dating. Lots of people tend to satisfy the needs of others, in which they become blind and forget to see their own requirements. Hence, it creates an imbalance in a relationship, which is not healthy. Therefore, you must always keep an open ear and an open mind in a relationship. This way, you have a relationship, which is not one sided.

  1. It is not a necessary for you to be interested when someone is interested in you

You can easily tell if your date is genuinely interested in you. However, this does not mean that you also be interested in him or her. When a person shows an interest in you, no need to reciprocate it, if you don’t want to. Because if you force yourself into doing that, you would simply be lying to yourself, and be deceiving the other person.

  1. Finding your kind

When a person says that his or her “kind” is this or that, it means that he or she has some  preconceptions regarding the person who he or she is attracted to. However, if dating your “kind” does not provide you a satisfying and healthy relationship, you need to let go of your preconceptions, and be more open minded regarding dating.

  1. Don’t date someone who only interacts through message

If someone is chatting or interacting to you only through text messages, it is ideal not to stay in constant interaction with them any longer. Because, he or she is seeing you as someone who is good for just a booty call. Thus, it is best to go out with individuals who value you enough to call you.

  1. Do your research

Regardless of how the other person reveals about how he or she is interested in you, in which he or she initiates the first steps to get involved in a date with you, you must not be complacent, and still do your research. Because, you don’t really know what their intentions are. With thorough research, you can feel safer in dating the person, besides the fact that it can also help you see whether he is attached or not.

  1. Ask questions

Prior to going into your third date, you need to recognize whether a person is still trying to get over an ex, is married, or has just been separated. To accomplish that, you need to ask questions regarding all of these. If you can’t do it on your first date, make sure to do it on the second date so that you are assured ensured that you are not wasting your time on him or her.

  1. Don’t cloud your judgment

If you focus too much on the achievements of a person or how much the person is earning on a monthly basis, it can lead you to make wrong conclusions regarding individuals. Thus, you need to look pass that, so that you are able to see what the individual is truly made of. Talk to your date and listen attentively, so that you can see the real person within.

  1. Meet new people and make new experiences

If you constantly go through the same daily routine that you are used to, even on weekends, you can’t get a date that could transform your life. Thus, you need to put some variety into your life, by going to new interesting places, where you might meet new people. By doing that, you won’t  be relying on your luck on scoring a date, you are making things happen by yourself.

  1. To enjoy dating, you need to spend time and effort

There are times when you don’t feel like going out for a date. Because you have already set the time, and you don’t intend to humiliate someone else, you need to do it. The date may not be that great, yet there is  a good possibility that it would. Therefore, spending time and effort, you must take a chance.

  1. Don’t expect too much from people

When you expect too much from your date, you may end up getting disappointed. The best is to not expect anything from a person, you are not  capable of doing by yourself. Hence expect less, so that you get surprised when your date does something great that you are not anticipating.

  1. Getting to know your date

Getting to know your date is the most effective things you can do, see if you can actually build a lasting relationship with them. Hence, you need to ask questions regarding what your date believes in, what he or she is planning for her life, what his or her objectives are, and much more. Besides asking questions though, you must also observe if they are living the way they claim they are.

  1. Don’t be too quick in writing off someone

If you are unable to hit it off right away on your first date, there is no need to write off someone right away. Because, it is extremely possible that you or your date may not be comfortable with yet. Most of the times, it takes about 2 or 3 dates, before you get a feeling, whether you are truly interested in the person or not.

  1. Never force yourself to liking someone

Forcing yourself to like someone is never a good idea, unless you want to try it out. It does not mean that if your date is the best one you have, you must like them. Because being nice is not the only requirement for a relationship to grow. You also need to share common interests and values, so that you can agree on lots of things.

77. Lazy communication

There are certain individuals who communicate only through text messages, emails, or instant messages. If you want a  open relationship, you need to avoid these sorts of individuals. Because these ones usually do not want to reveal themselves to other people. In addition to that, they may also be lazy on their relationships.

  1. Can the other person give you what you want in a relationship?

This is a question that you need to ask yourself, especially when you have taken steps in your relationship, after dating a number of times. This is due to the fact that you intend to make sure that you are investing on something that is worth every minute of your time. Besides, it can also stop you from expecting too much from someone.

  1. Be careful in telling your date regarding your past relationships

Your first and second dates are not the best times in telling your date regarding your past relationships. Because it can make the other person be bored with all your past stories. You need to understand that your date is interested in you and not your past. In addition to that, your information regarding your past relationships should not be shared to someone you do not trust completely yet.

  1. Going to movies

Watching movies must not be done on your first few dates. Because these dates should be the stage where you  get to know each other well. When you go inside the movie theater, in addition to being too dark, it won’t allow you to talk to each other well. In regard to this, on these first few dates, you should do something, which involves lots of interaction.

  1. Pay attention

Paying attention to your date is a must, if you want to make sure that you are indeed dating someone who has no issues. Paying attention can help you identify signs, which can tell you about the adverse behavior of your prospective partner. By doing this, you become more aware of things that you need to take into consideration, on determining whether you want to see him or her again or not.

  1. Keep away from your date’s home

If it is still your first, second, third, or fourth date, you must keep away from your date’s home. Because it is just too soon to be invited over to a house, or inviting someone, unless you both want to go to the bedroom instantly, and it is your objective of going out. If that is not the situation though, only visit your date’s house in the latter stages of your relationship.

  1. Be truthful

If you are actually interested in the other person, you must not hide it. Dating should not be a game, because it can make you send out all the wrong messages. Rather, you must be as truthful as possible, so that your date can also see your true self. By doing that, you would build your relationship on the right path.

  1. Show that you are interested

Showing the other person that you are interested is a must, especially if you actually are. Because it can build his or her self-confidence, knowing that you may be looking forward to seeing him or her again. With that, you both become much more excited in seeing each other, and take pleasure in each other’s company a lot more.

  1. Your mobile phone

When you are on a date, one of the important things that can irritate the other person is when you stop your conversation in order to respond to a call, or read a text message. Therefore, you need to switch off your mobile phone or put it in silent mode, before being in front of your date at the table. Just respond to the messages when you go to the restroom.

  1. Talking and listening

Some people believe that they need to talk a lot to impress their dates. However, you need to maintain a balance in talking and listening when you are on a date. If you are doing most of the talking, your date may not be interested in sharing some information to you or simply are not giving them an opportunity to speak.

  1. Speak about yourself positively

You need to build yourself up in your date, so that you can sell yourself effectively. Thus, you need to be aware of your positive characteristics. By doing that, you are able to talk about yourself in a more positive tone, which can impress the other person. However, you need to be careful in doing it, so that you won’t become someone who is obnoxious.

  1. Building your profile in online dating

Since online dating is quite popular nowadays, you must also take advantage of it. When it comes to building up your profile, make sure to indicate whether you are interested in a long term relationship or not. By doing this, you can effectively filter out the persons who do not share the same objectives as you do.

  1. Inform a friend or a close relative that you are going on a date

Since there are lots of insane people these days, it is always a good idea to inform a friend or a close relative about your date. You need to tell them about the time and the venue just to be on the safe side. To feel a lot more secure though, you can always choose to go on a date in a public place.

  1. Don’t research about your date’s ex

One of the most important things in dating is to be yourself. Therefore, you must refrain from doing your research about your date’s ex, because you may tend to develop a sense of insecurity due to that. Rather, focus on revealing your true self to your date, so that he or she is able to determine whether you are indeed the one that they are looking for or not.

  1. Don’t be readily available

If a person you are dating has let a week gone by before calling you up to set up another date, you should not accept the invitation right away. Because it might show them that you are readily available, or are desperate for going out. If a person thinks about you that way, he or she may start to think of you in a negative way and may develop negative ideas.

  1. Don’t be confrontational

You might think that being confrontational or aggressive can make the other person believe that you are self reliant and fearless. Although this is true, it is actually not a good idea to make this sort of impression on your first few dates. Because, the other person may pertain to think that you are using your aggressive behavior to manipulate or control him or her.

  1. Your date is reluctant in answering your questions

Asking appropriate questions is extremely important in order to gain right information from your date. However, if your date is having second thoughts in answering them, either he or she is hiding something from you, or is trying to come up with a lie. You can’t date someone who is not an open book, because you might end up expecting something that he or she cannot provide.

  1. You can always say no

It is quite understandable that you want to be agreeable in order to avoid conflicts. However, you can always say no if you actually disagree on something. By doing that, you are in fact being  truthful to your date. In addition to that, it lets your date get to know you better, and encourage them to be themselves as well.

  1. If you want honesty, be honest

Since you want your date to be honest, you need to be honest yourself. Being honest means that you are being yourself. By doing that, you are actually revealing yourself to your date, and it  depends on him or her to like you for it or not. When you are honest, it may also encourage the other person to be honest as well. Besides, being honest can also help you see if the other person is lying or is telling you the truth.

  1. It is fine to be uncertain on the first date

If you are not so certain about the outcome of your first date and you are still willing to give it a try, you should get in touch with the other person 2 to 4 days later. Some people can take some time to be more comfortable with someone new. Thus, after a few dates, you should be able to conclude whether you can start a relationship with your date or not.

  1. Don’t date just because your friends and family

When you date just because your friends and family tell you so, you are not being true to yourself. This can lead you to dates that are not worth remembering, especially if you leave it to them in setting you up with someone they know. Therefore, it is best that you go out on a date, because you actually want to.

  1. Choosing a website for online dating

Online dating provides you a means to meet people that share your interests. In choosing the  website though, it is best that you do your research about it. By doing that, you ensure that your information is safe and secure. Besides, researching can help you pick a website that increases your possibilities in finding the person you are meant to be with.

  1. You don’t have to say that you love a person

Say the three magic words, when you truly mean it. Therefore, you don’t have to say it when you genuinely value the other person for his or her actions. Apart from that, even though you actually believe that you are falling for him or her, you must not say these words till you have started building the first few blocks of your relationship.

Meet new people and make new experiences
Meet new people and make new experiences
  1. What it means if your date tells you he or she loves you

If a person tells you that he or she loves you, even when you are still at the first or second date, it can mean a lot of things. For instance, they may just want to get you to bed, or are simply not assessing their feelings well. Nevertheless, this means that he or she is speeding things up, instead of letting your relationship grow on a natural pace.


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